Social media is at the centre of so much of our free time, constantly associated with doom scrolling, algorithms, hashtags, and so many…
Social media is at the centre of so much of our free time, constantly associated with doom scrolling, algorithms, hashtags, and so many other buzzwords. Recently, I was talking with a few of my roommates about what we like to do when we’re overwhelmed or stressed, and we came to the topic of our socials. For the last few years, I have seen countless “taking a break from social media” posts, but I’ve never taken the plunge. This got me thinking about my lifestyle without it. Would really be so different from now?
FOMO, we’ve all experienced it, but social media has brought it to a new high. Seeing our peers, or even strangers, doing everything we could dream of is exhausting and makes it feel like we’re doing something wrong. The reality is that social media is a place to dump your highlights and the most exciting things you’ve done, not your typical day-to-day activities and definitely not your struggles. So, by engaging with social media too much, there is a constant need to compete and compare our lives to what is posted. By reducing social media, there is less to compare yourself to others on and you can focus on how much you enjoy each moment rather than saying things like, “but I could be doing this instead,” or “I wish I could do that.” In a world where everyone is trying to keep up with the latest and greatest, it can be easy to forget about our own success. Platforms are designed to hold your attention, making them large distractions or digital noise. Less time on social media platforms can help increase productivity in our daily routines and allocate more time to self-improvement activities like learning, hobbies, or quality time with loved ones.
Defining social media is a challenge, what really counts? This can be largely dependent on what you hope to achieve with this social media detox – limiting doom scrolling is what I chose – because it changes the goal you’re setting. Once you’ve identified what you plan to focus on, find what apps or sites are directly impacting the issue and then decide what is not as directly, but still, impacting it. Those main apps will be on the delete list and the other ones will go on the timer list. Next, set a time frame, maybe it’s a week or two of fully deleting. As for the timer list, set a timer for 10-15 minutes when you go to use these platforms. For me the delete list apps were TikTok and Instagram and I noted I frequently get sucked into the rabbit hole of Pinterest when I get bored, so that was on my timer list. The key is being realistic about what goal you are setting and what you can accomplish, even if that means starting small and adding more afterwards.
After a week of not using social media, I found numerous benefits; my sleep quality was better because I wasn’t scrolling late at night, going out with friends was more engaging, staying in didn’t leave me feeling like I was missing out, and my overall screen time was lower. I also noticed a few downsides though and I think that’s because while I was ready to set aside my social media, my communities weren’t. Many business and universities use social media platforms as a fast way to distribute important information about events, closures, and other things; by deleting my apps I was missing a lot of community-based events that I would have liked to know about. Finally, I had to be honest with myself, sometimes I snoozed those timers on my Pinterest scrolling, at first that left me feeling pretty guilty, so I settled on only using Pinterest once everything I needed to achieve that day was finished and rewarded myself with a ‘cheat snooze’ to compromise.
Moving forward I am implementing somewhat of a gameplan to manage my socials based on what pros and cons I took note of after this mini experiment. The apps I found useful –even after deleting – could come back, but I used the screentime feature “App Limits” to restrict how much time I could spend on them. There is really no need for more the 20 minutes of TikTok per day in my life! Although I wasn’t very strict with the timers on Pinterest, they were a useful reminder of whether I was using my time as effectively as possible, so I’ll keep them and try to only use it once all my work is done.
So, what will your gameplan look like?